There is much to tell and comprehend in such a short period of time. Where to begin is the problem that always seems to face me. (acknowledge photo) When he was a young lad he had a larger than average bed. Although it all seems inconsequential now….. as he grew up, or older may be a better way of stating it, the larger than average size shrank. Now, a mere shadow of its former self, remains. But I digress… let me skip ahead to the part you want to read about.

It all began some years ago. A young boy longing to think he was a man, gives up his bed. His privacy followed immediately afterwards. Without the modesty of a bed, a door, or walls, the young fellow simply aged but never grew up. Some years later a bed was found. By comparison it was gigantic. It was comfortable, and the new owner relished its existence to the fullest. The happiness that was gained while in ownership and its use, couldn’t begin to fathom the depths of despair that were soon to follow.

The Couch Surfer observed in the wild.

There where signs to be read but the anal retentive and indecisive boy had in fact turned into a man. Little did he know that his faith in fate had deceived him, and set a plank at his feet. He was about to find its end. His cruise control malfunctioning, he just ignored the problem and continued onward. Life had tried to teach him to push forward through the past. The past is behind you he would tell himself, but oh how his thoughts haunted him at night. Putting himself on the rack and then forcefully suffocating all ties to a life he pretended to enjoy, he slept. Sleeping away the day, the light, sometimes he would sleep through what would later be called “the most fun anyone has had in months.” The pride of his stubbornness would win quite a battle.

The unpredictability of the ambiguous young man would be proven a lie. He whom called himself an original and honest person was beginning to doubt himself all over again.

“What if everything I believe is backwards. What if one of the two people I despise most in this world, is actually good and I am the evil one?”

For years this thought has haunted him but only recently had he actually sat down to think about it. He once told me that writing was his way of expressing himself.

“Writing something beautiful is like creating something so wonderful that it should be criminal to not share with the whole world. It is like discovering something so awe inspiring that every being on earth might focus more on the needs of others if only for a moment. That single solitary moment could change the views of a generation. And yet when I write things that I read over and enjoy, I do just the opposite. I hide them. I care not that I may be recognized and congratulated for them. Not to say that such a thought has not crossed my mind. But what’s more pressing is just the opposite. What if no one enjoys it or if no one understands. The understanding of such a thing is quite often a reflection of the times, I tell myself. But could my soul withstand such a moral bruising? Could my ego take a hit of such loving admiration or disdain? “

He would go on to say that he has only shown a few pieces of his writing to anyone other than one of his English professors and that was later turned in as an assignment. The original copies of which where turned in and are now destroyed.

His family had tried to encourage a drastic change in his life, habits, and motives. Friends would try the same and employ other approaches. Mostly they just hoped he would take the hint and try. Still his stubbornness persisted. No one really know why he acts or does the things he does, but most people believe that if he would apply himself, he could do anything. (This writer acknowledges the corniness of that last line but fails to find a better choice of words at this time.)

Something finally did get him onto that drastically changed path. He would never admit what it was. Even now, with all the facts as they are laid out before me, I don’t believe even he could identify it. All I know is that somewhere along the way he got himself lost again. Not that he could ever ask for it, but now is when he is in need of the most help. Until he can pull himself together, put his inhibitions aside and step out of his shell, you will find him cruising the waves at night.